I Was Dating a SOCIOPATH | insane *triggering* story time

  • Published: 17 January 2018
  • I want to help prevent this from happening to other girls, too.

    leave me a comment below about your crazy ex! make me feel better lol.


    IG: @itsbethanymarie
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    William Brooks
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Comments • 1 375

  • Angie Starr
    Angie Starr  44 minutes back

    sorry but i met my bf on tinder, and weve been together for over a year and we are more than happy, so try not to generalize

    • Life with Abria
      Life with Abria  8 hours back

      Girl he sounds like a narcissist

      • ManyBirdz
        ManyBirdz  9 hours back

        • Stephanie Meteer
          Stephanie Meteer  17 hours back

          “Nothing good ever comes from tinder” factsss

          • Brittany90
            Brittany90  20 hours back

            RED FLAG #1-A FUCKING MARINE. NO NO NO NOOOOOO!!!! I think sociopath is a specific requirement of the branch -__- ALSO! Most Men who have parents that have drug problems or drinking problems literally stay away from that type of stuff. Not all I'm sure but I'm sure a good majority of them do.

            • raspberry
              raspberry  1 days back

              Those kinda people always talk bad about previous girlfriends, when he is the one who ruined theris life.

              • Ceecee Nj
                Ceecee Nj  1 days back


                • obbzerver
                  obbzerver  2 days back

                  Before I go out with you I have to verify that all this really happened to you. :)

                  • Made In Memphis
                    Made In Memphis  2 days back

                    Beautiful girl! Great decor! New subbie! Now let's get to the vlog😘👸🏽

                    • Paola Valtierra
                      Paola Valtierra  2 days back

                      Sounds like a lifetime movie.

                      • crystal E
                        crystal E  3 days back

                        You should make more videos girl! Why did you stop?

                        • Courtney Shaine
                          Courtney Shaine  3 days back

                          You just described my ex. At 38 years old he impregnated a 23 year old while living with me & being super close to my family. Very good looking. Very charming. yaddi yadda... 2 years without him and I am STILL trying to recover financially, emotionally, and it's hard. You got so lucky girl. My "fiance" made me literally homeless, without a car, and yeah. RED FLAG #1: Things seem too good to be true. (b/c it is!)

                          • Eleni Belle
                            Eleni Belle  3 days back

                            Watch out loves, narcissists are literally everywhere. Beware especially of the smart ones. They don't have boundaries, or morals, there's no line for them. They're wearing the skin of a human but have no soul inside. There is no therapy or drug in the world that will fix a narcissist. RUN.

                            • Christina Masemo
                              Christina Masemo  3 days back

                              How come you don’t film anymore? 🙁

                              • Thatoneblondegirl 12
                                Thatoneblondegirl 12  3 days back

                                I had a baby with a controlling narcissist... have to deal with him for the rest of my life

                                • Ad tk
                                  Ad tk  3 days back

                                  Good thing he wasn't your husband..like my ex husband..stole my twenties🤦

                                  • Hot Mess Mamas
                                    Hot Mess Mamas  13 hours back

                                    Ad tk Same here I feel for you. Now we know what to stay away from :(

                                • Christina George
                                  Christina George  4 days back

                                  Some men do mature or grow til they are in their middle 30s and 40s and women mature young.

                                  • Christina
                                    Christina  4 days back

                                    so glad you are safe girl

                                    • jan rees
                                      jan rees  4 days back

                                      I'm so glad I met my husband through friends and never went on tinder.

                                      • Sunny C.
                                        Sunny C.  4 days back

                                        Thank God you are fine now! And please always listen to your intuition! I don't even know you but I wish you all the best !!!! Thank you for sharing your story.

                                        • Vyara Vasileva
                                          Vyara Vasileva  4 days back

                                          Really helpful video! I'm happy I found it. I'm just literally trying to escape from that kind of person. I am 25 and he as well. The police was involved 3 times, and after every time I was feeling so guilty and sick andI was letting him to talk with me again. I blocked him everywhere, but yesterday he called me from his friend's phone begging me to unblock him and promising me that would never bother me like before...till today. We had an argument by the phone again, later he start to threaten me that he will hurt himself If I don't talk with him again. I and because I am so soft and naive, I picked my phone again... And when we were talking by the phone he told me Look behind.. And he was there.. And I gave him a time to talk and he was explaining how miserable is his life and blah blah... Just to make me feel guilty and sick again. Yes, I blocked him again just now, but he know where I am living and he will come, he did it once. I am afraid that after the police was involved 3 times they will not take on serious if I call them again, cause after everything I let him to keep in touch with, and I am afraid that when he freak out he can hurt me, he did in once already... So please girls, look at the red flags in the beginning and run away as fast as you can! I could avoided all of this but I stupid, don't be like me, please!

                                          • Aimerzzz :D
                                            Aimerzzz :D  4 days back

                                            He's a sociopath, but you definitely escaped early. I dated one and I wasn't so lucky. I went through hell!

                                            • o.O? Really?
                                              o.O? Really?  4 days back

                                              psycho female who at the beginning of the vid asks for HDD meds because>> her life... The whole vid she talks about her borderline ex and how fucked up her life choices are.

                                              • moppleinga
                                                moppleinga  4 days back

                                                read book on narc and borderline personality disorder.. so you can spot the signs and run . she is right.. 1 month takes years to get over truly x i think a great red flag is a disfunctional argument when its like they didnt hear or respond to what you said and you get confused.. or it escalates quickly into shouts or tears or drama..run run run..

                                                • Glamifiedlooks
                                                  Glamifiedlooks  4 days back

                                                  That’s like the story of dear john . So scary! So good thing you got away. Get a restraining order .

                                                  • Alina Iacobescu
                                                    Alina Iacobescu  4 days back

                                                    thank you so much for sharing this with us. It's incredible that you had to go through this. You are so much stronger than you know. Sending you lots of love and I am sure that the Universe will send you the one you deserve. Take care, hunny! :*

                                                    • America Bless God
                                                      America Bless God  4 days back

                                                      Why do you think it's a sociopath vs psychopath?

                                                      Both are compulsive liars, sociopaths target your social reputation more than anything

                                                      • Lais Ferracini
                                                        Lais Ferracini  4 days back

                                                        Girl something very similar happened to a friend of mine. We found out that his gf of like FOUR YEARS was leading a double life. We would never have found out if a series of unlikely coincidences hadn't happened. Crazy stuff.

                                                        • Lucija Žgela
                                                          Lucija Žgela  5 days back

                                                          Nothing good comes from Tinder, so true.

                                                          • alexis torres
                                                            alexis torres  5 days back

                                                            Her hair is gorg

                                                            • Sarah Townsend
                                                              Sarah Townsend  5 days back

                                                              Omg that sounds exactly like my ex

                                                              • ghostx girl
                                                                ghostx girl  5 days back

                                                                Sounds like borderline personality.

                                                                • Paper Plains
                                                                  Paper Plains  5 days back

                                                                  Girl, you are so fortunate to realize these things and that you got out early on. I gave 7 years to my ex psycho. Still healing and doing better than I ever was with him.

                                                                  • Mindy Morningstar
                                                                    Mindy Morningstar  5 days back

                                                                    Why haven't you uploaded? Subbed then realised you don't upload anymore🤔

                                                                    • Empire Equine
                                                                      Empire Equine  5 days back

                                                                      My ex literally used me for a child so him and his mom could raise it together as “theirs”.

                                                                    • lizor
                                                                      lizor  6 days back

                                                                      Uhhhh is she okay?

                                                                      • Victorious Joy
                                                                        Victorious Joy  6 days back

                                                                        Thanks 4 sharing! I had a similar story only I married him and suffered for years. Ya! You can't make this stuff up!!

                                                                        • Zoë K
                                                                          Zoë K  6 days back

                                                                          What I've learned from my own emotionally abusive relationship and what my friends have gone through... if multiple people tell you that your boyfriend is a bad guy... BELIEVE THEM !!!!!

                                                                          • tiera .jones
                                                                            tiera .jones  6 days back

                                                                            Your intro is nice but it’s too long

                                                                            • lockstam
                                                                              lockstam  6 days back

                                                                              I love your living room!

                                                                              • Baby S
                                                                                Baby S  6 days back

                                                                                ok why is youtube showing me this now and where did this girl go since this is her last uploaded video

                                                                                • Kate
                                                                                  Kate  6 days back

                                                                                  People... pls dont think anything is wrong with you or anyone else if you're in your late 20s+ and not dating/ with someone. I'm almost 29 and have been single for years by choice and dont want to be in a relationship anytime soon! That shits annoying af!

                                                                                  • DishLuna
                                                                                    DishLuna  6 days back

                                                                                    This guy isn't a sociopath. He's a narcissist

                                                                                    • Areyanna
                                                                                      Areyanna  6 days back

                                                                                      I almost don’t trust men in their 20’s anymore. I say almost, as in a “not all men” way just to appease those, really “sensitive people”...but I don’t trust men at all.

                                                                                      • Shairda Brown
                                                                                        Shairda Brown  6 days back

                                                                                        “Bitch look where I am now”😭😭😭🙌

                                                                                        • Erin Laemmle
                                                                                          Erin Laemmle  6 days back

                                                                                          JESUS!!! 😳😳😳😳🙄🙄🙄

                                                                                          • Erin Laemmle
                                                                                            Erin Laemmle  6 days back

                                                                                            LOVE BOMBING!!! Hello! 3,000,000 psychopaths in America spread the word! ✌️🙏👍

                                                                                            • Erin Laemmle
                                                                                              Erin Laemmle  6 days back

                                                                                              It’s like going on a merry go round with fucking a-holes!! Emotionally and socially! Makes you damn dizzy!